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9 Intimacies

2010-01-27T19:20:00.001+08:00

The word, "intimate" has long been defined by the act of intercourse, and while romance and sex are indeed an important part of intimacy, they are only a very small portion of it. The actual definition of intimacy should read, "a warm relationship between lovers that is characterized by a relaxed informality, deep understanding, vulnerability, shared empathy, and the need to be close. Other definitions may also choose to include the word 'soulmate' as a means to describe the extent of such a connection.

What is intimacy, exactly? Here's some relationship advice in the form of nine pieces of the puzzle, which, when combined, comprise the truest form of intimacy a couple could ever achieve:

Emotional Connection- To connect emotionally, a couple must know how to communicate effectively, expressing everything from their goals and dreams to their fears and regrets. Such communication should include both verbal and non-verbal (hugging, cuddling, touching) cues of expression.

Spiritual Connection- A spiritual connection between partners is considered a sacred bond between body and soul. Each partner involved is aware of who they are, who their partner is, and the sacred life force which has been created by their union.

Relaxed Informality- Intimacy is not only reserved for lovers, but also our closest friends and family. These are the people we feel relaxed around, and with whom we can be ourselves. If you are hiding your true self out of fear of not being loved for who you are, you have already sabotaged your chance of intimacy.

Deep Understanding- We are never afraid to tell those who we are intimate with, how we really feel. This is because we know they will understand where we are coming from, taking a position of understanding, rather than defense.

Trust- When a person gives themselves to someone, they are putting their trust in that person not to hurt them. While this is a risk, it's also the only way to truly open yourself to the possibility of true love, intimacy, and the ability to heal all past, failed attempts at love.

Familiarity- The intimate couple should feel like that favorite pair of jeans in your closet that are so worn from use, they could almost disintegrate. They fit perfectly, look great, feel fantastic, and you could find them blindfolded in a room full of other jeans if you had to.

Vulnerability- Intimacy is about allowing our partner a front row seat to the story of our lives. It is an unspoken promise that you will remain open to your partner, sharing your most intimate, closely guarded secrets, and in return, they will hold these secrets as dear as their own.

Shared Empathy- This is a couples ability to know each other so well, they almost sense how each other feels. A partner can walk into a room, and without even saying a word, the other will know if something is wrong. This maybe as close to a true soulmate as most of us will ever come.

The Need to be Close- The need for a couple to be together all the time can be characterized by an unhealthy distrust in the relationship. In this case, however, it's not that they are afraid to be apart out of fear of losing each other, but out of the desire to share as much of their life together as possible.

The next time you and your partner discuss intimacy, don't forget that its origins go far deeper than sex. It is unfortunate that many couples fail to understand that true intimacy is a slowly developed process, intertwined by the mental, social, emotional, spiritual, and physical. Those who know this kind of intimacy, know pleasure far beyond the fleeting moments of passion between the sheets!

Leavin on a jet plane~

2009-12-15T23:16:00.004+08:00

hik hik...I cant say that I am with the song's mood. Actually I quite happy since I will starting my new year wit a new life, new environment, along wit new hopes, dreamz, etc. Everything will be so new that I cannot imagine how nervous I am wit all of this changes.

I will leave Setapak, my frens, and all the goodness of being a student of KLMU and resident of Apartment Dahlia by this week. (InsyaAllah).

Along wit my dearest one, I hope to succeed my career life and now we have a target to meet. We will get ready for our next step and all steps after that. I want to stay tough and I'm pretty sure I will achieve what we have target for. (InsyaAllah)

Again, I juz love my life so much. All the obstacles, miracles happen in beautiful way. Thank Allah. I always do. Alhamdulillah...

.::Life is too Beautiful to trap in Craps::.

4 in da morning- da remix

2009-09-09T01:51:00.003+08:00

she look so hungry at 4 a.m- sahur pya pasal. hehe

we r at some rare place (i dun want to expose much) after have to run-away at dat nite. something terrible happen and we have to leave home after midnite

sory ati, have to expose u. dun have idea lately. heh!

da pic dat i promise

2009-08-20T05:17:00.010+08:00

akak jual kain

mak to pick souvenir

inside pasar Siti Khadijah, Kota Bharu

front of main palace

dataran Kota Bharu

lunch time wit family angkatku

homestay hall

front of kubah As-Sakharah, Palestine

my beloved mum

unique mosque

crystal mosque

crystal mosque entrance

Taman Tamadun Islam's monument park are the world first theme park that acknowledge Islamic architecture. The monument park is a showcase of Islamic Civilization in the form of architectural wonder. There are 21 scaled replicas of historic Islamic monuments from 20 country located on the Monument Park. The main attraction in the monument park are National Mosque (Malaysia), Dome of The Rock (Palestine), Masjidil Haram (Arab Saudi), Al-Hambra Citadel (Spain) and Taj Mahal (India).

There are also others replica such as Kalyan Minaret (Uzbekistan), Samarra Mosque(Iraq), Mohd Ali Mosque (Egypt), Qairawan Mosque (Tunisia), Allepo Citadel (Syria) and Kul Syarif Mosque (Russia).

National Mosque, Malaysia
Kudus Minar, Indonesia
Pattani, Thailand
Sultan Omar Ali Saifudin Mosque, Brunei
Taj Mahal, India
Badshahi, Paksitan
Kubbah As-Sakharah, Palestine
Samarra, Iraq
Sheikh Lutfallah, Iran
Abu Nasr, Afghanistan
Al-Haram, Mecca
Aleppo Citadel, Syiria
Mohd Ali, Egypt
Prophet, Medina
Suleyman, Turkey
Qairawan, Tunisia
Al-Hambra, Spain
Kalyan Minaret, Uzbekistan
Agadez, Niger
Kul Sharif, Russia
Xian, China

Confession of a Shopaholic

2009-08-11T22:26:00.001+08:00

As to continue the last post, I’ve done my shopping at Kelantan and Terengganu within last weekend. I was so damn tired. Not enuf sleep+keep walking all day long+enormous plastic of shopping to carried. I even still feel the effect until now. Hehe

I was traveling from KL-Ipoh at the Friday noon and arrived at 4 p.m. then the journey continues on 10 p.m from Ipoh-Rantau Panjang (Kelantan) and I arrived on 6 a.m on next morning of Saturday. After solat Subuh and breakfast, we started to shopped from on to another shops there. Because of it’s a border of Malaysia-Thailand (Golok), the price is quite cheap and my mum keeps taking almost everything from the shops, without me of controlling her.

Then we off to Kota Bharu, Kelantan on 12 p.m. at KB, I’ve started to control her money flow because she already spent almost RM400 at Rantau Panjang and now she planned to buy material to be made as baju kurung for our raya. As I can see there, 1 material almost achieve RM 200-400 and she wants to spent at least 1K there.

By end of journey, I go to Kuala Terengganu (Terengganu), Taman Tamadun Islam (Terengganu), and Bukit Bunga (Kelantan) and spent almost 3K by that weekend. I dunno if I wasn’t there, how many she will spent there. Its unpredictable.

I only arrived Ipoh on 1 a.m. on Monday and must taking train to KL Sentral on 9 a.m. I think that I can make it at least Mr. Atif class on the Monday afternoon but when I arrived KL on 1p.m., I was so tired and sleepy. So I skipped the class. So sorry sir….hehe

oh, ya. i will enter the pics later. huhu. i'm not uploading it to pc yet

the Fearless Child

2009-08-07T01:11:00.005+08:00

i dun have time and tools enuf to manage my blog, so this is wat i can do meanwhile:

Bleach 368: The Fearless Child

like always, while i have no idea to write, Bleach updates will be my favourite. hehe.

2. i will be off to Kelantan tomoro wit my mum. she wants to shopping for this raya/ aidilfitri (its about more than a month from now). well since there are nobody wants to accompany her, i will be the one who should. hmm....

3. but meanwhile, i always have problem with my health. i keep having flu, cough, etc (thank god its not H1N1). so i worry that i cannot make it for my mum. i already have plan to hide it if i really not to well, but i'm afraid she will notice it. a mother u know....she always know my condition no matter how hard i try to hide it.

so the conclusion is: I WILL BE STRONG FOR MY MOTHER!...for her sake..uhuk2...

i dun need a man~~at least for now

2009-07-18T00:03:00.001+08:00

I see you looking at me

Like I got something for you

And the way that you stare

Don't you dare

'Cause I'm not about to

Just give it on up to you

'Cause there are some things I won't do

And I'm not afraid to tell you

I don't ever want to leave you confused

The more you try

The less I bite

And I don't have to think it through

You know if I'm into you

I don't need a man to make it happen

I get off being free

I don't need a man to make me feel good

I get up do my thing

I don't need a ring around my finger

To make me feel complete

So let me break it down

I can get off when you ain't around

Oh!

You know I got my own life

And I bought everything that's in it

So if you want to be with me

It ain't all about the bling you bringing

I want a love that's for real

And without that then no deal

And baby I don't need a hand

If it only wants to grab one thing

The more you try

The less I bite

And I don't have to think it through

You know if I'm feeling you

-the end-

2009-07-16T22:48:00.002+08:00

dear you,

i dont want to stay another minute

i dont want you to say a single word

there is no other way

i get the final say

because i dont want to do this any longer

i dont want you

there's nothing left to say

i'm sorry for the way i let go

of everything i wanted when you came along

i know next to you is not where i belong

and its a little late for explanations

there isnt anything that you can do

364-Grinning Revengers

2009-07-03T00:10:00.006+08:00

I luv Aizen-sama..eventhough he is a bad guy. afterall, maybe i just luv bad guy...hehe

http://www.onemanga.com/Bleach/364/

exam for this semester

2009-07-01T01:31:00.003+08:00

uhuk2...

tomoro i will have SAD (system analysis and design) paper...

takot lorr...

i even dreamt about one of my lecturer...not good, not good

it cant be a good sign..or...is it coz i'm too nervous about my exam?

hehe..cam tak caye je leh nervous for exam

uhuk2

superchunky from Hell

2009-06-27T22:34:00.002+08:00

well, i dun know what to post for a while. guess, i dun have idea. so, this is manga dat i view recently. Bleach 363- Superchunky From Hell

http://www.onemanga.com/Bleach/363/

HOW TO CURE A HEART BROKEN

2009-06-18T03:33:00.007+08:00

Actually, i already recovered from the heart broken. yes, the incident is about few days ago (15th June 2009) but somehow, i got strength from my faith towards Allah+ my mother and my lil sister+my surroundings (frens, lecturer). its good rite?? i mean, i didnt expect to gain a calm life this soon. i expect that i will grieving for quite sometimes (at least a week). because last time i got a heart break, i spend 3 weeks of non-stop crying-everywhere. in my office, on my way home, of coz in toilet too. i take 2 years to fully recovered (to forget and open my heart to next relationship). compared to when the first time i've got a heart broken with FIRDAUS...this time is nothing...seriously. so i guess i'm not missing anything. i still got all the love i needed.

on the day he's dumping me, I chant Yasiin to relieved my heart. yes, i cried with it. on every end of "...mubiin.." (there are 7 of them in Yasiin), i ask Allah to make it easy for me to go through this heart broken period, make it easy for me to forget about him, make me not to hate him and make me not to think about him much. dats my mom's suggestion to me if i have any difficulties.

i even called my mother to told her the incident. hehe..but she blamed me actually. she said I was never serious in relationship. even i denied it, then i think, maybe my mother's rite. (actually i'm afraid to get serious, dat the impact will be hard if something like this happen). then i ask her to passed the phone to my lil sister who knew every single updates of my relationship (present and previous). we were really close. i also told her the same things i said to my mom. and she also said the exact word as my mother " i was never serious in relationship". haha..i'm sure she doesnt listen to my mother when she (my mom) said that before. so i have to admit the quote. haha...alamak...

so then, i guess the one that i really need is my mom. the conclusion is from THE ONE lyric: Shakira.

You're the one I need
The way back home is always long
But if you're close to me I'm holding on
You're the one I need
My real life has just begun
Cause there's nothing like your smile made of sun

In the world full of strangers
You're the one I know..

only a mother knew how to ease a heart broken..

I'M NOT MISSING YOU-the lyric

2009-06-17T03:35:00.004+08:00

::.this lyric fits me too well rite now.::

Oh, Oh
Im not missing you
Been through just about everything that I could go through
When it comes to relationships
Dont know what I was missing or why I aint listen
When I told myself that was it
Now here I go, hurt again
Cause of my curiousity
Now that its over
What else could it be he just had to cheat

I made a promise never to settle
Why didnt I keep it?
Cause I hated the heartbreak
Crying and cheating, the fooling around

[Chorus]
(But) Im not missing you
Im not going through the motions
Waiting and hoping you call me
Im not missing you
You might have had me open
But I must be going because
I got life to do
I know Im usually hanging on
I used to hate to see you gone
But this time its different
I dont even feel the distance
Im not missing
Im not missing you

Its a shame in a way cause
I feel that I may not ever find the right one for me
Did I leave him, if he right in front of my face oh
Will my true love ever be?
Why would I go on a search again
When I know what the end will be
What good is love when it keeps on hurting me?

I made a promise never to settle
Why didnt I keep it?
Cause I hated the heartbreak
Crying and cheating, the fooling around

[Chorus x2]

No I cant be with you
Cause I'm scared felt like I was falling when you left me
I cant keep going through life
Unaware of what I missed
And the person I could be
Love's good when its right
And when it's left in your memory
All the times I let you down
I guess love will be nice for someone elses life

[Chorus]

Im not going through the motions
Waiting and hoping you call me
You might have had me open
But I must be going because
I know Im usually hanging on
I used to hate to see you gone
Oh different, feel the distance
Im not missing
Im not missing you

comment moderation

2009-06-16T00:39:00.003+08:00

sorry guys..i already change da settings on my comment column. so now you can leave ur comment like always...

n PLEASEEEEEE....leave me ur comment...i beg uuu...huhu

p.s.:dats y no comments for me recently..huhu

BAD DAY

2009-06-15T23:45:00.004+08:00

this day is da worst??? no ...not yet...there will be worst than this day..trust me.

tapi arini betul la menguji kesabaran aku ketahap..mmm..almost maximum..i guess.

firstly, kne tipu dengan TV3, kate ktorang kne shooting commercial coke, sudahnye sampai ke malam kne tahan tuk rancangan ewah2. penat xyah citer laa..da la buang mase banyak kt citu, aku rase baik aku dok umah, tdo, wat asgmnt yg tgh melambak tuh!

second, he really DUMPING me...haha..on his birthday!! wat a joke!

and da reason, he's got other girl which he met before me. (then why's he dating me?????) and just now, with all appologize he could ask, he wants me to take care of myself.. of coz i will, silly! do u think dat i will suddenly die after u break-up wit me?? hell NO!

and third (which i hope last for da day).. i met da copycat of FIRDAUS at ewah2 shooting... ahahahahaha...on da day dat my bf dumped me, i met d other copy of my ex-bf......really... this is HILARIOUS..plus, he keep sitting beside me while the shoots. siap berlaga bahu lagi even i already gave him so much space to sit.

so da result..my hand keep shakin few times for this day(mcm parkinson..hehe), my head keep spinning around, and i can't focus on what should be on my mind next..

well...i hope next chapter will be, HOW TO CURE A BROKEN HEART

IF I WERE A BOY

2009-06-15T03:10:00.006+08:00

I think he left me…already. It’s not final yet but..(sighhh…(-_-;)). I just dunno wat to do. Even its not dat I never felt it, but I really dun want to go through it all over again.. its HURT!!! Why he’s doin this to me??

If I were a boy even just for a day
I'd roll out of bed in the morning
And throw on what I wanted
And go drink beer with the guys

And chase after girls
I'd kick it with who I wanted
And I'd never get confronted for it
'Cause they stick up for me

If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I'd be a better man

I'd listen to her
'Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
'Cause he's taking you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed

If I were a boy
I would turn off my phone
Tell everyone it's broken
So they'd think that I was sleeping alone

I'd put myself first
And make the rules as I go
'Cause I know that she'd be faithful
Waiting for me to come home, to come home

If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl

I swear I'd be a better man

I'd listen to her
'Cause I know how it huts
When you lose the one you wanted
'Cause he's taking you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed

It's a little too late for you to come back
Say it's just a mistake
Think I'd forgive you like that
If you thought I would wait for you
You thought wrong

But you're just a boy
You don't understand

And you don't understand, oh
How it feels to love a girl
Someday you wish you were a better man
You don't listen to her
You don't care how it hurts
Until you lose the one you wanted
'Cause you're taking her for granted
And everything you had got destroyed

But you're just a boy

the ocean breeze

2009-06-10T12:20:00.014+08:00

Please Dun Stop da Music

2009-06-03T00:18:00.004+08:00

i'm going back to my hometown tomorrow..YAHOOOOO!!!!!

hehe

then we will go for camping at TELUK BATIK, PERAK with the rest of family on my mother side. i'm excited coz we doesnt do this for quite sometimes, almost 5 years (getting busy with our own life). and its not easy to getting together with da rest of my mom family. so, i think da family dat wud confirm to join us for this thursday trip will be my Mak Lang, Mak Teh, Mak Andak n they'll come with their kroni (family=kroni)(hehe...family word doesnt really exist in my family tree, we called it croni to replace it).

eheh...so it will be about a batalion of troops!!! with greatest fun, just by getting together!!

I REALLY CANT WAIT FOR IT!

P1 W1max-visit

2009-05-30T22:20:00.003+08:00

Hujan=Umbrella

2009-05-23T23:40:00.006+08:00

today was such lame... i dun know wat to do. juz kuang-kuik dr bilik-hall-dapur-toilet all day long.nk wat i-say-men pn laptop xda. huhu. then the little advanture started when:

today is pasar mlm day. i already waited for it for almost 2 weeks (coz last weekend i went back to ipoh..huhu). y shud i wait for it?? hehe..its cuz.... AYAM MADU...huhu. sedap seh... i'll buy it every saturday night market.

but on 5 p.m., da sky started to gloom...da lightning flashing in da skies. n i started shivering. i dun like it when da hard rain falls from skies. not good, not good. so i decided to went there earlier. d idea was, we can make it before da rain.

then juz after we (me n nik ida) had our AYAM MADU, trus ujan lebat. Allah... luckily i have my umbrella even it already damaged juz after we got out from da house - on hard wind. but the umbrella is not enuf. nik ida trousers wet n so my jeans. uhuh... kalo bkan sebab da beli makanan, aku redah je balik. basah pun basah la. then we shading under one of da stall there. tunggu smpai ujan tuh reda skit.

unknown model

on way home after dat kitorang kne benti few times n trap at Pattani (gerai tepi jalan). we only make it after maghrib. n rite now, i think i already get high tempreture...maybe a fever tomorrow.. but i hope not.

heh..itula penangan AYAM MADU...hurm... wanna try? :P

Torn

2009-05-21T01:23:00.007+08:00

actually, i dun have any ideas on writing rite now. (involving my novel progress also). there r many things inside my head, which i prefer not to think too much. serabut sangat la..

uhuk2.

somebody ask me lately, "ko de claim ko tuh BAGUS sangat ker babe?".

masyaAllah..tak pernah terlintas di fikiran untuk wat statement itu. Statement tu untuk org yg riak lagi takbur dengan kurniaan Allah je, dan aku bukan la antara org2 itu. I always aware where my level at. maybe there r somebody dat actually misunderstanding wit my comments or my statements but believe me, i'm not dat kind of person. ask anybody who really know me, they wont say so. i appologize if there r some heartfeelings or hurtfeelings towards me. really sorry. bukan niat aku pun nk sesuka ati menyakitkan perasaan org len kan. aku manusia, slalu wat salah. tgk la umo aku pun, budak lagi. baru nak kenal dunia. tapi sebab simple mistake pun org nak besar2kn..hurmm...entah la kan.

hmm...xper la...kalo de org nk salah anggap aku pn xper. bukan kaco idup aku pun. aku still makan nasi cam biase, gayut ngan bf aku cm biase. rutin idup aku xberubah apa2 pn kn, so, why bother? aku tak takut dengan judgement manusia2 kt dunia nih, coz aku amat yakin mahkamah Allah S.W.T Maha Adil kan? so jawab la kt akhirat ye...(senang kn prinsip aku?? sebab xske nk pk banyak bende xpatut2 nih..hehe)

Wallahhualam...

p.s.: aku takkan doakan orang itu macam mana die doa aku, sebab takut tak ikhlas. nanti jadi dosa. aku xnak la ditanya dlam kubur sok soalan2 yang aku leh elak nih. so, sorry yer.

6 Perkara Allah S.W.T sembunyikan

2009-05-21T01:21:00.000+08:00

Marilah sama2 kita fikirkan dan berusaha lakukan... Sesungguhnya Allah
S.W.Ttelah menyembunyikan enam perkara iaitu :

* Allah S.W.T telah menyembunyikan redha-Nya dalam taat.
* Allah S.W.T telah menyembunyikan murka-Nya di dalam maksiat.
* Allah S.W.T telah menyembunyikan nama-Nya yang Maha Agung di dalamAl-Quran.
* Allah S.W.T telah menyembunyikan Lailatul Qadar di dalam bulan Ramadhan.
* Allah S.W.T telah menyembunyikan solat yang paling utama di dalam solat
(yang lima waktu).
* Allah S.W.T telah menyembunyikan (tarikh terjadinya) hari kiamat di dalam
semua hari.

Semoga kita mendapat berkat daripada ilmu ini. Wallahualam

Tak Mungkin Kerna Sayang

2009-05-09T16:16:00.010+08:00

Tak Mungkin Kerna Sayang - Alyah

Setiba di persimpangan,
Langkah kita tak lagi sehaluan
Bermula di saat itu
Tidak senada irama dan lagu

Begitu hidup ini
Tiada yang abadi
Yang patah tumbuh
Yang hilang berganti

Kau telah jauh, jauh dariku
Tiada ruang di hati buatmu
Namun harusku akui
Ada ketika di minda kau menjelma kembali

Sekali sekala ada
Ada rindu yang datang tiba-tiba
Tak mungkin kerana sayang
Cuma terganggu oleh perasaan

Begitu hidup ini
Tiada yang abadi
Yang patah tumbuh
Yang hilang berganti

Kau telah jauh, jauh dariku
Tiada ruang di hati buatmu
Namun harusku akui
Ada ketika di minda kau menjelma kembali

Tak mungkin kerana sayang..hanya kadang kala aku terkenang...

usually..i'm not a jiwang person. nobody ever called me jiwang anyway. i even dun really into malay songs. but last week, i see intro for a malay soap called...erm.. i dun remember la.. something about kassandra. one of the actor is jehan miskin if i'm not mistaken.

so da intro is a chorus from Tak Mungkin Kerna Sayang - Alyah. which i never bother before but when i heard it on da gazet, i kinda like it. then after i went home at KL, i start to find out the song title n da singer. Farah (my housemate) said it was Tak Mungkin Kerna Sayang from Alyah. owh...then i remembered that she used to search for dat songs few months ago.. hoho. well, i'm not updating, i guess.

then i started to search for da lyric. after i got it...n sing it..i found out that...hmmm....its remind me to someone... MOHD FIRDAUS ISMAIL dat until now i never forgot. he keeps in my mind after in this few years, n still happen even after i met and happy wit EPOI. haiiyaaahhh...

y is it so...hard to forget?? (sigh...)

p.s.: epoi..its doesn't mean dat i'm not SAYANG u kay. u'r in my mind..always!

From Quran : Concept of leadership with regard to gender

2009-05-08T11:15:00.002+08:00

Any discussion of an Islamic point-of-view on a matter begins with a study of relevant verses (if any) from the Quran. Most Muslims consider the Quran the unaltered word of God as revealed to Prophet Mohammed in the seventh century of the Common Era. It is the primary source of Islamic jurisprudence, followed by the Prophet’s example or sunnah (a combination of biographies and compilations of records of his sayings and actions), the consensus of scholars, and derivation of law through analogy. Unlike the last two sources of jurisprudence, Quranic ordinances are binding on all Muslims, as is the Prophet’s Sunnah. We will therefore confine our discussion of the scriptural treatment of female leadership to the Quran and Sunnah. Does the Quran designate women as the unconditional followers of men within the family and/or within society? Two Quranic verses seem to acknowledge men’s leadership over women:1. Men are in charge of women, because God has made some excel (faddala) some of the others [4:34].2. And they (women) have rights similar to those (of men) over them in kindness, and men are a degree above them [2:228].

Conservative Muslims frequently quote these verse to promulgate the view that a man is the head of the Muslim family and that a woman may never take charge of men. Syed Abul a’la Maududi, for example, extended the role of man as leader and woman as follower within the family to the public sphere. He upheld the translation: “Men are the managers of the affairs of women because God has made the one superior to the other” (cited in Wadud 71). According to Amina Wadud, “an individual scholar who considers faddala an unconditional preference of males over females does not restrict qiwamah to the family relationship but applies it to society at large. Men, the superior beings, are qawwamuna ala women, the dependent, inferior beings” (72). This view opposes any possibility of female leadership as it claims the Quran prefers men as leaders both within the family and within society.On the other hand, fundamentalists such as Sayyid Qutb restrict the applicability of the verses to the family. Qutb upholds that as men provide for women, they earn the privilege of being in charge of women within the conjugal relationship. Even some modernists, such as Rafiq Zakaria, concede that men are the leaders within the family even though they argue women can be leaders at the same time. Scholars such as Qutb and Zakaria restrict the privilege of men over women to within the family as the preceding and following verses deal with conjugal relations and not with the status of each sex in society at large.

At the opposite end of the spectrum from Maududi, Amina Wadud rejects the idea that the Quran relegates women to an inferior position within the family or society in Quran and Woman. She analyzes the first verse as follows: “Men are [qawwamuna ala] women [on the basis] of what God has [preferred] (faddala) some of them over others, and [on the basis] of what they spend of their property (for the support of women)” [4:34]. She defines the more ‘what’ God has given to men as inheritance, the only thing of which God gives more to men in the Quran; she therefore interprets the verse to mean men must use their inheritance and earnings to tend to the needs of women as females play an indispensable and arduous role in assuring the continuation of the human species:

The childbearing responsibility is of grave importance: human existence depends upon it. This responsibility requires a great deal of physical strength, stamina, intelligence, and deep personal commitment. Yet, while this responsibility is so obvious and important, what is the responsibility of the male in this family and society at large? For simple balance and justice in creation, and to avoid oppression, his responsibility must be equally significant to the continuation of the human race. The Quran establishes his responsibility as qiwamah: seeing to it that the woman is not burdened with additional responsibilities which jeopardize that primary demanding responsibility that only she can fulfil. Ideally, everything she needs to fulfil her primary responsibility comfortably should be supplied in society, by the male: this means physical protection as well as material sustenance (73).

Therefore, the verse, according to Wadud, does not establish women as inferior to men or that men are the divinely designated leaders of women. It ordains men to fulfil responsibilities toward women who bear children and thereby should not be expected to work and support the family as well.With regard to verse 2:228, Wadud restricts it to the matter of divorce. The Quran allows men to divorce their wives without having to go to court whereas women have to seek the assistance of a judge. According to Wadud, this is necessary so that the judge can make sure the husband accepts the termination of the marriage without abusing the wife. Men therefore have to fulfill a greater financial responsibility toward women in return for the ease of initiating the divorce; they have a higher degree of financial responsibility toward women whereas a woman does not have to compensate a man if she initiates the divorce. For modernists such as Wadud, as women are not confined to being followers within the family, there is no prohibition against their assuming leadership roles within society.

Another verse occasionally used by conservatives warns against entrusting money to the “foolish” which many companions of the Prophet interpreted as a reference to women as well as children: “Give not unto the foolish (what is in) your (keeping of their wealth), which Allah has given you to maintain” [4:5]. If God has forbidden men to entrust their money to women, how can they even think of entrusting all of society to them? Al-Tabari, however, says that had God wished to denote women by “foolish” he would have used the feminine plural form of foolish instead of the masculine or gender-neutral one (Mernissi 96). The use of this verse to prohibit female leadership exemplifies the range of evidence both sides bring to support their views. With regard to such verses, the decision on whether or not women may lead men and women depends on whether a nation accepts the fundamentalist or modernist interpretation. Through present day, the conservative view has generally received wider acceptance. Given the possible limitation of verses 4:3 and 2:228 to the conjugal relationship, does the Quran make any specific references to female leadership within society or a ‘nation’?

well...i'm not missing you!

2009-05-06T22:00:00.005+08:00

i'm well known as a happy gurl now. i have all da luv i wanted n needed: from Allah, family, da guy dat i pray for all this years, best frens, etc. which remind me, i dun have any arguments or unsatisfied matters anymore. orang kate kalo Allah nak tarik nyawa aku skang pun, tak ralat la. coz aku di bawah lindungan dan perhatian orang2 yang sayangkan aku dan menerima aku seadanya. so my priority now are:

Allah S.W.T.
parents
siblings
epoi (hehe..true, i really pray for him. thank god i found you!)
my study
lily-nuar-odah-izzah-siva (my SAHABAT. which i never ask for more)
entertainment (manga, movies..hehe)
n da rest is history

wit all this, shud i missing others? hell no!

aku xdpt la nk sebut sumer kengkawan aku, housemate, classmate, woodcampers which br knal da mesra. but i do love their presence dan mereka ini termasuk dlam doaku (muslimin dan muslimat). oleh kerana aku bersyukur dengan kesemua diatas, i always remind my self, they are only TEMPORARY. yang kekal hanyalah Allah S.W.T. maka yang penting masihlah DIA. dan berbalik lah pada basic mengapa Allah membenarkan roh kita ditiup ke jasad sewaktu awal kejadian dan apakah janji kita padaNYA : untuk menjadi HAMBANYA.

jadi mengapa harus ada benci? tak penat ker asik pikir yang lepas2? enjoy ur life...its easy! bak kate mak aku: enjoy your day n fight for tomoro. janji tahu mengapa kita DIBENARKAN hidup.

Big Girls Dun Cry

2009-04-28T23:33:00.001+08:00

:::.Luv this songs so much! Enjoy! Most of about me, from da day i grew older.:::

La Da Da Da Da
The smell of your skin lingers on me now
You're probably on your flight back to your home town
I need some shelter of my own protection baby
To be with myself and Center, Clarity
Peace, Serenity

[CHORUS:]
I hope you know, I hope you know
That this has nothing to do with you
It's personal, myself and I
We've got some straightening out to do
And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket
But I've got to get a move on with my life
It's time to be a big girl now
And big girls don't cry
Don't cry
Don't cry
Don't cry

The path that I'm walking
I must go alone
I must take the baby steps 'til I'm full grown, full grown
Fairytales don't always have a happy ending, do they?
And I foresee the dark ahead if I stay

[CHORUS:]
I hope you know, I hope you know
That this has nothing to do with you
It's personal, myself and I
We've got some straightening out to do

And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket
But I've got to get a move on with my life
It's time to be a big girl now
And big girls don't cry

Like the little school mate in the school yard
We'll play jacks and UNO cards
I'll be your best friend and you'll be mine Valentine
Yes you can hold my hand if you want to
'Cause I want to hold yours too
We'll be playmates and lovers and share our secret worlds
But it's time for me to go home
It's getting late, dark outside
I need to be with myself and Center, Clarity
Peace, Serenity

[CHORUS]
I hope you know, I hope you know
That this has nothing to do with you
It's personal, myself and I
We've got some straightening out to do
And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket
But I've got to get a move on with my life
It's time to be a big girl now
And big girls don't cry
Don't cry
Don't cry
Don't cry

hit me (baby) one more time.....n i'll KILL u!

2009-04-27T23:35:00.013+08:00

as last friday, i went to book fair after english class n a meeting for project management. the venue was at

PWTC...pheww....dat day was great! i added my novel collections on HLOVATE's and IMAEN's. hehe..(dun blame me mum, u know who started my crazyness!)

then while having lunch, my frens asking for me to go and support my class futsal

team practice at stapak futsal court (i think so). i went there wit karun (which kinda paksa me to be there) n nik ida. so we go there, getting with others and into da court.

aku cari tempat lepak tepi court je but i didnt know it was wrong idea to stay in court while others keep practicing futsal. another minutes then, i was kene REMBAT dengan apau!!!!!

hadoi la....sakit gle...tepat kene pale lak tuh. lbih 20 mins aku xleh gerak. nk bukak mata pun seksa. da la pakai contact lens...haru laaa.....

cuak gle apau dengan karun. but i'm not blaming them. bukan sengaja pun. after an hour, i'm getting better. aku lompat skit to show them not to worried much. da rain after dat killin me..it takes my head spinning again but i'm not showing it to others. not to make them more worry of me.

the effects takes until rite now (after 3-days incident). on saturday, my concusion getting worst. i vomits after taking b1st and lunch. my head spinning, n i couldnt even stand still, cant open my eyes, cant makes many movements. sampai nk type message to my bf pun menggigil. he called me then coz he worried and ask me to go to haspital. but unit pesakit luar is off on weekend. he ask me to admit emergency, i said no. we have arguments while i'm in pain. it SUCKS!!! he even told me not to tell anything to him anymore (he's sulking), juz becoz i'm not considering his suggestions. i knew he so worried n concerned, but i'm not going juz becoz of that.

then today (monday), i'm getting better. but since there are many who worried about me, my housemate, my frens n da bf who so far away, i juz go to have checkups at HKL (even da bf ask me to have CT scan, which i said "overboard"). after few checkups and meetings, da doc said i having general concusion + jangkitan virus.. phewww...

see, there's nothing to worried about guys. i knew my conditions well. i knew i didnt need da doc to said so. i knew i had concusion even i didnt know the level. n its stated "GENERAL" only. i even not taking da medicine, baik bagi pada yang lebih layak. i didnt need it, ok.

da concusion will takes few weeks to recovered (maybe 2-3 weeks). i'm suggested not to involved with any sports, not having stress, not to this, not to that...(haiiyaaa...). it already makes me sick!

so meanwhile, i will not pamper my self out of what da doc said. my life will run completely as i want to. nothing will stop me. called me STUBBORN as if i didnt know!!!

n apau, even i'm forgiving u now, doesnt mean that i'm giving second chance to do another rembat.. try me.

here without u

2009-04-24T11:04:00.002+08:00

erm...

there's a sad nus la....
i WILL NOT seeing him after he coming back from Sarawak. coz he will be at semenanjung only for few days, n there r many things he shud setel b4 fly back to Kuching... huwaaaaa.....
another tormented period for me...wat shud i do???

i feel so lost...tensen jer...
everything must be accepted
but i dun want to be a burden 4 him, so i just shut my sadness..hmmm

HELP MEEEE......

wind it up!

2009-04-23T22:31:00.005+08:00

here's the situation:

there are few presentation in my class today, perform by other class that combine wit us. actually i'm not really enjoy it cos..i'm not that into the subject anyway. so there are one group of 3. 2 gals wit a guy. one of them are old enuf to be called akak, n i do respect her for her willing to continue her study even i think she already have watever it takes for a happy woman. but wit the presentation dat i dun understand, i start mumbling and writing gossip on a paper wit my fren beside me.

me: barula aku pasan, BI kite lagi best dari klas len...wonder why...?

she: they mix all over the words, the pronounce, the speech: Malaylish

me: y everything have r-n-s? (every word she said have this sounds). kamus baru ka?

she: she bajet she good enough. american+britain+perancis, ok what

me: hoho...then what r we? nigerians? haha. sakit perut aku nk gelak kne tahan

she: tak pyh thn2..kang terkeluar isi perut ikut blakang. wahahahaha

me: ceh...imagine: HUSBAND --> HUSBARNS

she: hahaha...memang lawak spangpranbritlish (spanyol+prancis+british+english)

me: aku ingat English je hancor, malay (language) pun jahanam upernyer

she: dah ckp BM pn xleh nk cari ayat best, inikan lg ckp BI

me: excited sgt nak bercakap...sumer tunggang terbalik...

and...bla...bla...bla...

the moral was: if u do a presentation, make sure u know the pronounciation well. i'm not saying i'm good enuf, since i do love malay+english, but at least i sure do want to learn it. not just syok sendri, reka perkataan baru tuk kamus sendri.

hmm...if i do same thing..please help me guys, k.

Q-A session: Jangan Mengeluh

2009-04-21T23:49:00.001+08:00

Kita selalu Bertanya....................dan Al-Quran sudah menjawabnya.................

KITA BERTANYA : KENAPA AKU DIUJI?
QURAN MENJAWAB
"Apakah manusia itu mengira bahawa mereka dibiarkan saja mengatakan; "Kami telah beriman," ("I am full of faith to Allah") sedangkan mereka tidak diuji? Dan sesungguhnya Kami telah menguji org2 yg sebelum mereka, maka sesungguhnya Allah mengetahui org2 yg benar dan, sesungguhnya Dia mengetahui org2 yg dusta."
-Surah Al-Ankabut ayat 2-3

KITA BERTANYA : KENAPA AKU TAK DAPAT APA YG AKU IDAM-IDAMKAN?
QURAN MENJAWAB
"Boleh jadi kamu membenci sesua tu padahal ia amat baik bagimu, dan boleh jadi pula kamu menyukai sesuatu, padahal ia amat buruk bagimu, Allah mengetahui sedang kamu tidak mengetahui."
- Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 216

KITA BERTANYA : KENAPA UJIAN SEBERAT INI?
QURAN MENJAWAB
"Allah tidak membebani seseorang itu melainkan sesuai dengan kesanggupannya."
- Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 286

KITA BERTANYA : KENAPA RASA FRUST?
QURAN MENJAWAB
"Jgnlah kamu bersikap lemah, dan jgnlah pula kamu bersedih hati, padahal kamulah org2 yg paling tinggi darjatnya, jika kamu org2 yg beriman."
- Surah Al-Imran ayat 139

KITA BERTANYA : BAGAIMANA HARUS AKU MENGHADAPINYA?
QURAN MENJAWAB
"Wahai orang-orang yang beriman! Bersabarlah kamu (menghadapi segala kesukaran dalam mengerjakan perkara-perkara yang berkebajikan), dan kuatkanlah kesabaran kamu lebih daripada kesabaran musuh, di medan perjuangan), dan bersedialah (dengan kekuatan pertahanan di daerah-daerah sempadan) serta bertaqwalah (be fearfull of Allah The Almighty) kamu kepada Allah supaya, kamu berjaya (mencapai kemenangan)."

KITA BERTANYA : BAGAIMANA HARUS AKU MENGHADAPINYA?
QURAN MENJAWAB
"Dan mintalah pertolongan (kepada Allah) dengan jalan sabar dan mengerjakan sembahyang; dan sesungguhnya sembahyang itu amatlah berat kecuali kepada orang-orang yang khusyuk"
- Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 45

KITA BERTANYA : APA YANG AKU DAPAT DRPD SEMUA INI?
QURAN MENJAWAB
"Sesungguhnya Allah telah membeli dari org2 mu'min, diri, harta mereka dengan memberikan syurga utk mereka... ?
- Surah At-Taubah ayat 111

KITA BERTANYA : KEPADA SIAPA AKU BERHARAP?
QURAN MENJAWAB
"Cukuplah Allah bagiku, tidak ada Tuhan selain dari Nya. Hanya kepadaNya aku bertawakkal."
- Surah At-Taubah ayat 129

KITA BERKATA : AKU TAK DAPAT TAHAN!!!
QURAN MENJAWAB
"... ..dan jgnlah kamu berputus asa dr rahmat Allah. Sesungguhnya tiada berputus asa dr rahmat Allah melainkan kaum yg kafir."
- Surah Yusuf ayat 12

p.s.: Kalu engko nak mengeluh lagi ............jom gi ngaji

more to LIFE

2009-04-21T23:21:00.010+08:00

OUTCAST

2009-04-20T21:38:00.027+08:00

on da bus, b4 departing

huhu..on 18th April 2009 (my lil bro bebday also), we're going to Woods Camp, Ulu Yam.

Man...its crazy fun u know?

we we're arriving there at 9.10 a.m. and got

simple briefing for our accomodation. i'm staying in a tent wit nik ida n paez. free space for us..huhu.

we then given a grup for some activities, n free time to do watever until lunch. i'm in grup 4, together wit malik cdds, ida ccss, fiza ccns (my classmate) ali cbds (haha..lengkap sume ccsp student cos). then we brainstorming da presentation for dat nite. da plan was: make simple play n sing. huhu. da song is quite jiwang...garu kepala jugak la aku. but then, its ok lor...xsemestinyer kne wat yg aku ske je kan. huhu.

after lunch, we have sukaneka at 2 p.m. kinda fun! first game we have 'lambong belon' and keep it. we lost. sad. but then after the game,we can trew it to whoever. hoho. i trew it to mr. naga but not reaching him. pecah kat tangan sendri. alamak. he then pointing at me like said: "you're dead meat!" haha. gurau je. 2nd game we have 2 telan anything given by committee. 5 things are: biskut kering, roti wit wasabi, telur mentah, kopi pekat, n roti wit fresh cili burung. hoho. da team let me choose kopi pekat. xda hal beb, mmg gua ske pun. hoho. senang je aku telan. yg len mmg terkulat2 la gak. pas game, free time lagi. aku ngn geng2 memeng+paez+arif n awek die, malik, n rest g lpak kat stream area atas skit dri tempat camping. mmg best siott..enjoy abis. even ade yg kitorang xknal, tp masuk je korum. lapk2 sampai nk senja br aku kuar dr air. then kne bratur cri toilet bersih. ingat nk guna toilet chalet memeng, but there already too many line up for turn. sir mus let us to borrow his chalet.

after maghrib n dinner, i n my team practice for our play. n after isya' da presentation started. we got da last number to play. (i dun have any pic here. i'll add it up later, insyaAllah). my frens said i was miming. hoho. not miming la dey, small voice. i kinda afraid of staying on stage. it aint my place! hoho. wat to do lorr...

after finish, we have little game but not very interesting. also have camp fire too. but its ok, just to kill time b4 we have our 'blind walk' on 12 a.m. but sad, xjadi lak. everyone was so tired, it was cancelled.

i having problem to sleep in da tent. lantai die sejuk sgt, n i have athma. not good for me. tapi tido je la...nk wat lagu mana. semalam je pun.

next day we have pocor2 dance. i was one of instructor. hoho (also dun have pic on dis. i'll try to search for it from my fren later, insyaAllah). 1st time, sume lintang pukang. huhu. yg melompat2 pn ada (ahmad n ayie i noticed). but 2nd time much better. everyone enjoy it n ask for more.

on 10 a.m., we have treasure hunt. it was fun coz all in my team so enthusiastic, specially malik. he always runnin from one point to another and make rest in team runnin too. n da result: we WON!!!! hoho. exciting feelings, hehe. specially for malik, coz he work so hard on it (actually on every game we have). da game end n we have free time again until lunch (every free time i spent in da water..huhu)

after have lunch, aku berendam jap (sempat aje...). then on 2 we start our blind soccer. my team lost. my blind google was so 'blinded'. i cannot see anything. sumer orang men langgar2 aku.huuu..mentang2 aku kecik.memeng pun tersepak kaki aku. the end of game, sir naga join it n his team won. dats first time i ever seen he actually join da activity.

we end up our day wit penyampaian hadiah and team 4 got no. 2!! sumthing i never expected. then we exchange our gift wit each other n take pics altogether.

so, after got back to reality, nik ida said dat she left sumthing in da bus. at first, i dun bother, but then when she said, my things also in it too. terus lutut jadi lembik! alahai...nk wat caner. da jadi. nk marah pn xleh da. halal je la...

conclusion: I REALLY DO ENJOY DA EVENT!!!. it quite facinating n meet lots of new fren too. i hope to join it next time. huhu.

"Baby I'm Back..Yeah"

2009-04-20T20:52:00.002+08:00

HE'S GOING BACKKKKK!!!

o.m.g!

I was so excited when he telling me dat!! Even I was so tired when I just got back from KLCC, meeting my frens from Ipoh+I'm not recovered yet from fatigue, its all gone when he recite 'Baby, I'm Back!".

he was at Sarawak, outstation. I guess, I already post about it last week. since i missing him so much, i kud not wait for him to return back. huhu. but he will be here on at least this saturday. hmm...lama lagi tuh. but at least i have da date to count. YAHHOOOOO...!!!

hehe

damn TIRED!

2009-04-19T22:24:00.002+08:00

urg...i just got back from da camp....really...DAMN TIRED!

so i will not ranting tonite..maybe tomoro.

even i am so excited to post about camp's activities...but i must do it with all d energy. if not, da post wud be so lame...i dont want dat..

so, later je lah yer...

da...

i want to sleeeeeeeeeeepppppppppppp...zzzzzz

tomoro never dies

2009-04-17T21:47:00.004+08:00

isok aku nk g CAMPING...huhu. jgn jeles seh...

ala...kt Ulu Yam je pon. bukan jauh.

ok la..aku pun da bape tahun x g camping. sebelum aku dipaksa menamatkan zaman bujang without using my youth to maximum, baik aku ikut jer. kalo nak bergila-gila pun skang jer. sok2 mne tau kot da xleh.

but somehow, i actually isau about sumting, MAXIS XDER COVERAGE KAT CTU....uhuk2...

abis la aku, xleh 'gayut' dgn da BF.

since i have been worried bout it for few days, my fren suggested that i kud buy celcom number and use it while i'm on outcast. mne leh! xkn sebab sehari je, aku kne beli number len lak kn? amatlah not sensible. posibility itu aku sebutkan pada BFku, surprisingly, he agreed. isy, ngarutlah. so, i didnt buy da number. biarla. 2 ari semalam je pun. bukan lama sgt (iye lah tuh!). even i know i might killin myself while i'm missing him, i just try to bare it lah. hoho

so my campers fren, help me to forget him for a while, can ah? alahai....sabar je la

Chosen Leader: Tan Sri Dato’ Sri Dr. Zeti Akhtar Aziz

2009-04-17T02:05:00.000+08:00

Introduction

Tan Sri Dato’ Sri Dr. Zeti Akhtar Aziz (Dr. Zeti) is a Malaysia 7^th Governor and still currently a governor for Bank Negara Malaysia. She holding that title from May 2000 and a first woman got the title.

Biography

Dr. Zeti was born in Johor Bahru, Johor. Her father is Professor Ungku Aziz, and mother Sharifah Azah Mohamed Alsagoff. She received early education at Assunta High School, Petaling Jaya in 1958. In 1970, she received a Bachelor's degree in Economics from University Malaya. She subsequently continued her studies at the Wharton School of the University of Pennsylvania, receiving a PhD in monetary and international economics. As part of her PhD dissertation she carried out pioneering work on capital flows and its implications for monetary policy. She is married to Dr Taufik Ayman and has two children.

Career

She began her career as an economic analyst for the South-East Asia Central Bank Training & Research Center, from 1979 to 1984. She was then appointed Deputy Manager of the Economics Department at Bank Negara Malaysia.

She joined the Economics Department in Bank Negara Malaysia in 1985 and was appointed Secretary to the Board of Directors of the bank in 1987. In 1989, she was posted to the Bank Negara Malaysia London Representative Office as the Chief Representative. After returning to the Head Office in 1994, Dr. Zeti was appointed the Bank's Chief Economist and the Head of its Economics Department. In 1995, she was appointed Assistant Governor, responsible for economics, reserve management, foreign and money market operations and exchange control.

Additionally, she was Managing Director of Danaharta Nasional Bhd from 1998 to 2000, and was on the board of directors of Khazanah Nasional Bhd from 2004 to 2008.

On November 16 2008, she was selected as one of the members of a special task force at the United Nations to examine reforms of the global market system.

Dr. Zeti as a Leader

Dr. Zeti is the one and only woman in Asia who holds the portfolio as a central bank’s governor, and is also one of the very few women in the world appointed to the highly regarded position. She has been serving the Bank for more than 20 years. In 2003, Euromoney named Dr Zeti as Central Bank Governor of the Year for her role in the reform of the exchange rate, the capital markets, and the banking industry. 3 years before that, she was made the list of ‘the most powerful women in the finance industry’ as was released by the international magazine, Global Finance.

Dr. Zeti was one of the key figures that were involved in the decision to introduce capital controls and the currency floating. A controversial implementation that raised the eye browses of financial critics and the likes. However, many years later, she achieved a status of a hero and returned the country into competitiveness faster than any other countries in the region. Apart from being a high flier in the company, Dr Zeti has also written numerous dissertations and publications on monetary, financial economics, Islamic finance, capital flows, macroeconomic, financial reform, restructuring and so on.

Her achievements

While there are parallels between the Asian economic crisis 10 years ago and the current financial turmoil may hold some useful lessons for world governments as they steer through troubled times. To going forward, the world is likely to continue to be plagued by financial crisis. While the trigger factors for such financial crises may be different, for most, there was a general loss of confidence, disruptions in the financial intermediation process and a general downward spiral of asset prices.

As in the Asian financial crisis, the economic contraction was severe. In the current financial crisis, the spillover effect on the economy has yet to be fully felt. The Asian crisis, however, ran its course within a short period of time. The policy focus during the Asian crisis was on restoring the functioning of the intermediation process to promote economic recovery. For most countries, growth resumed within 18 months of the start of the crisis.

The Policy

The important action that needs to be taken in managing a financial crisis seems to be already apparent, as evidenced by the series of policy announcements made by the respective governments, the multilateral agencies and the various international groupings. Dr. Zeti announced policy actions have included providing huge liquidity injections into the system, that removing the troubled assets from the portfolio of financial institutions, strengthening their capital position and providing depositors with protection. In addition, the implementation of monetary and fiscal stimulus has also promoted economic recovery.

As for her actions, Malaysia then can measures the implementation at the early stage of the crisis raised the prospects for restoring stability and the resumption of lending. Such early and pre-emptive action requires anticipation of the trajectory of the crisis. Reacting to developments or delayed action diminishes the effect of the measures to contain the deterioration. It will also raise the cost of the crisis.

While today economic crisis, Dr. Zeti said that “The effects of the fiscal stimulus and supportive monetary environment will put the country’s economy in a better position in the second half of the year”. She said though the external economies were experiencing contraction, the domestic economy was still growing. The first quarter of this year was very much impacted by contractions in external economies which have taken a toll on country’s exports, she said. As for the effect on the global developments in first and second quarter of year have been surfaced. She believed that in the current environment our projection is more or less a flat growth because of the contractions of the external environment and it is being offset by domestic demand. On non performing loans (NPLs), Zeti said the Malaysian domestic banking system was well-positioned to absorb any rise in NPLs. The NPLs are now at historical low of just over two percent. And therefore, even if they were to rise, the banks can absorb them. The declined have been seen to trend up to this point.

Conclusion

From the bottom, a woman always was underestimated when it comes to leadership. However Dr. Zeti has proves that the statements are no longer an arguments that she always shown a woman also can be a great leader. She’s seen as a good governor more that the previous Malaysia’s governors are. The crisis that now happen globally never bring her down, hence make her coming up with ideas that seen can saves Malaysia.

As a leader, she is also an analyst, that is, she’s industry forecasters who are well versed on the trends, opportunities and problems that her field might face. In any public exchange, she is ready to answer question on any challenges that might happen to her review.

p.s. I Love U

2009-04-09T23:18:00.000+08:00

hi there..

do you familiar wit 'P.S. I Love You'? it is a novel writen by Cecelia Ahern dat been made to movie with Hilary Swank, Gerard Butler, Lisa Kudrow, etc. I love it so much coz it touches my feelings very well. Its about a dead guy 'guiding' his wife to have love again after she's in miserable of his death. however, i will not talking about dat particular movie, nor the novel. P.S. I LOVE YOU also has been my phrase also lately.

my boyfriend is at ______ for few weeks-outstation. he's working at 'geomatic' field in the jungle. being far away from him make me kinda lost. while he's been there, I cannot always contact him, or sms him coz he is so god-damn busy with his work: day and nite. since i already promise him dat i will understand his situation, i cannot complaint anything to him if he cannot entertain me. wuwu...it sad u know. da la skang nih tengah 'angau overboard'! alahai...sakit tul la..

so if i send him message and he cannot reply coz his work, i will send another message says ' p.s. i love u' to show dat how much i missed him and care.

but tonite (just now), he tell me dat his company ask him to continue at Sabah!!!! huwaaaaaaa......(feel like crying!). he will be there for few weeks after finish his work at Sarawak.
erm...i already like a lost kitten rite here, so i dun know if i will turn into lost 'godzilla' if this keep happening. hmmm....

so yesterday

2009-04-09T12:34:00.000+08:00

i'm starting this blog 2 days b4..at almost midnight. since i use da 'free-so-called-wireless' of my neighbour, i always cannot complete my blog, cannot give response to sir mus on his q:wish to know who i am and need my blog add, cannot read my manga online...haiiyohh...bcoz he (da neighbour) keep turn it (da wireless) off! well...da free stuff, i shouldn't complaint rite? beggars can't be picky... :(

i want to use broadband but my bro said i can have his after i receive lp from KLMU....(yeah...when is it??) so meanwhile, i just use free sources. huhu

[enter da main point]
so yesterday i finally watch FAST FURIOUS4 wit my frens. i waited for it but coz of some prob, we delayed until yesterday. i was so......EXCITED!!! i really enjoy action movies, specially on cars...beautiful cars!
it finished almost midnight...err...not actually. on 10.15 (but its midnight for me already. coz i dun have night life b4). i was so tired that i already spent 2 night straight at KLCC after class. (da night b4 was for booking tickets). i also almost terlajak my subuh! thank god my so-called bf was waking me up!

well..i cont this tonite lah...gtg...2 have lunch!

a new start to find new faces!

2009-04-08T23:27:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikum...

I hereby to announce my new blog!
actually I already have blog, with friendster.
u r welcome to visit
<http://machireizen.blog.friendster.com/>

rite now, i'm uploading my new novel..(that still in progress..unfortunately. So, in term of erm...what should i call it...self-estimate can ah??) i put a password there. Sorry guys...I can't help it. Hehe...I'll release after I have confidence to do so. PROMISE!

But u still can read other previous post! naaa.... :P